i was pmd by a car booter recently for something i had posted, i refused because i knew where it would go. however, nobody else took it and i am left with it now and it has become an eyesore.
in hindsight i realise that car booting must sometimes be hard work, an early start, a long day in the wet and cold. making a profit or not.
and also the stuff that i could have got rid of would eventually end up with somebody who needed it which was what i wanted originally.
if i give money to a charity etc i have no idea if that money actually goes to the ppl i intended it for or to line somebody's pocket.
so i think the best attitude is to give for the sake of giving and not to worry about what happens next. then it's out of your mind and out of your space.
live and learn!
kilk
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