gillo, i think you hit the nail on the head when you said that maybe they get overexcited about an item, the pms do tend to come in even when stated, no pms. We have all had this happen. I think people read the thread and just see whats on offer and not the restrictions placed by the giver, i'm sure i've done it myself. Some will continuously pm, these i will ignore, others will apologise when they realise their mistake, but really the giver has the control of an item and decides as they will.
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